Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Wed. Sept. 26, 2007

I was watching Oprah today and she had kids on with their parents. The parents were divorced and in some way the kids felt that it was their fault. I felt really bad for them because they were saying how their parents used to fight and i can remember when my parents got into a fight and it hurt me but to have your parents get into a fight and end their marriage, i think that would destroy me, and my siblings. I mean my grandparents are divorced but now they get along, my aunt and former uncle, got a divorce and my cousin was not okay with it even now that she is 21 years old i can still see how she wants her mom to have someone. As i was watching the show i noticed that every kid that was their cried. This one girl who's parents got divorced when she was 9, and she is now 16, she got into drugs at an early age and became promiscuous with over 22 guys in the last 2 years of her life. She became this way because she truly feels it was her fault that her parents aren't together any more, she was 9 and she walked in on her mother and another man, and she told her father and that's when they got the divorce. I was watching the Tyra show and they had a divorce topic that day too, and it is becoming a big issue for their children and parents don't really know how to talk to their kids about this, if their is a mom or dad out there that has been divorced with kids then they should really find out how it has affected their children.

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